Today is a new day.
I feel like it’s Day One of a brand new life. I almost feel as though I am mourning this life I’ve had for the past 2 years of soothing my soul for a moment with food. In doing so I’ve lost myself. I’m a strong women. Dedicated. Committed. Helpful. Selfless. Yet, in the past 2 years I’ve been anything but. Full of excuses as to why I’m packing the weight back on again. Up and down. Back and forth. Been over a decade putting that kind of stress on my heart, my body, my spirit. Not to mention the slack my Husbands has to pick up with me unable to do pretty much anything but work or drive myself to a meeting once in a while.
I’ll never be skinny.
I’ve never been skinny.
I don’t want that. My Husband sure doesn’t either. I want to be happy. I want to be proud. I want to be healthy, active and good example for my family. My Son watches me sit and eat. He asks me to play and I can’t even think about getting up. It’s a chore to get up from a low couch. He’s annoyed. Maybe even sad. What if he wonders what’s so wrong with him that his own Mother won’t even sit up to play a board game? Loud games were our favorite- still are.
Even now getting out of the shower I see me, but I’m a stranger. I’m under there somewhere, I swear. I feel suffocated by failure when I look at my body. What I’ve done to myself. What I let it get to.
The good thing is I’ve done it to myself and I have the power to change it. With the right system and the right support group I’ll get there! I’ll meet my goals.
Today I sign up for a new life.
I will commit to loving myself.
I am an athlete. Legit Sprint Triathelte 😉
I’ve always been.
I need to find myself again.
Here you can join me in my journey to find myself, love myself and discover watch me
Flail With Finesse. xo
Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter. — Izaak Walton